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193 – Talking to Kids About Sex, Boundaries, and Relationships—Without Making It Weird

ADHD Thrive Institute
ADHD Thrive Institute
193 - Talking to Kids About Sex, Boundaries, and Relationships—Without Making It Weird
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Many parents worry that talking about sex, boundaries, consent, or online exposure will open doors too early—but real-world clinical experience shows the opposite. In this episode, Logan McIlwain explains why ongoing, everyday conversations actually reduce risky behavior and help kids feel safer turning to their parents instead of the internet.

Dana Kay brings a deeply personal perspective as a mom of a teen and a tween, naming the fear so many parents quietly carry: “Am I too early… or already too late?” Logan gently dismantles the pressure to get it perfect and replaces it with a more sustainable truth—presence matters more than perfection.

You’ll learn how to use everyday “micro-moments” to build trust, how to respond calmly to sensitive questions, and how to reset conversations even if you feel behind. This episode is especially meaningful for parents of neurodivergent kids, where impulsivity and online exposure can make these conversations feel even heavier.

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 Show Notes

KEY TAKEAWAYS
[03:00] Why this episode isn’t about biology—but real-world parenting
[05:46] How inherited discomfort shapes today’s parenting fears
[07:16] Why parents don’t need all the answers
[08:30] What happens when parents stay silent
[12:30] Why micro-conversations beat “the big talk”
[16:15] The myth that talking leads to risky behavior
[19:27] Handling unexpected, sensitive questions calmly
[28:50] Resetting conversations when you feel behind
[29:26] Logan’s one actionable parenting tip

MEMORABLE MOMENTS
“If you don’t talk about these things with your children, Instagram will.”
“We don’t have to be perfect.”
“Kids feel like parents talk at them.”
“Circle back. That matters.”
“You don’t have to be perfect. You just have to be present.”
“Understanding comes before teaching.”

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ABOUT THE SOARING CHILD PODCAST

Dive into a unique podcast experience where we explore innovative and natural strategies to support children with ADHD.

The Soaring Child Podcast hosted by Dana Kay, offers you a chance to listen in on conversations that could change the way you think about ADHD management.

Dana Kay, board certified health & nutrition practitioner, author of the best selling book Thriving with ADHD: A guide to naturally reducing ADHD symptoms In your child, leading ADHD expert but most importantly a mom with a child with ADHD who gets it.

As a mother of a child with ADHD, she knows firsthand the struggles that come with parenting a neurodiverse child & the freedom that is possible once parents learn to reduce ADHD symptoms. Dana has been featured in Forbes, on Fox & CBS, & various other online media. She has also been a guest at multiple parenting & ADHD summits & podcasts.

Her goal with the Soaring Child is to give hope & answers to parents of children with ADHD who are looking for alternative (natural) and effective means of helping them learn to thrive at home, at school, and in life.

Because children with ADHD deserve to soar, just like every other child.

 

 

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